Whether you know someone who is having a hard time, someone who has recently attempted suicide and survived, or someone who has lost a loved one to suicide, there are lots you can do to help.
By Showing Up And Reaching Out, You’re Taking A Big Step Towards Supporting Your Loved One.
It can be helpful to gain a basic understanding of suicide and suicide prevention, to break down any stigma, and dissolve any myths about suicide you may hold as beliefs.
Suicide Is Complex And Multi-Faceted.
“Suicide is an attempt to solve a problem of intense emotional pain with impaired problem-solving skills.” Judith Springer, 2011
Read our guide on Understanding Suicide Prevention: A Handbook for Family Members and Caregivers here
Check out some FAQ’s about suicide and suicide prevention here
Supporting Someone Who Is Struggling Or Who Has Attempted
Listen to the Person
Be attentive and reach out to the person. Take the person seriously and listen carefully. Remain objective and non-judgmental. Assure the person that something can be done. Never promise to keep it a secret. Their life is too important.
Be aware of the risk factors and warning signs. Ask the person directly about any intentions of suicide. Discuss suicide openly and honestly.
Offer support and encourage hope. Focus on the person’s strengths. Agree to go get help with them. Don’t take on their problems; try to help connect them with someone who can support them. Take all threats seriously. Link the person you are supporting to resources. You can check out our Youth Resources and Adults / All Ages Resources pages.
Never Do It Alone
Share responsibility by involving family, close friends, a family doctor, clergy, or other support services. Check-in by phone, text, or e-mail. Attend an education or support session for family members or caregivers. Information about some in the region here.
You can read our page on what to do if you think someone you know is at risk for suicide.
You can read about how you can support someone after their suicide attempt.
You can help others by being informed about how to safely talk about suicide. For more information on training to prepare yourself to have conversations around suicide, check out the SafeTALK and/or ASIST training through LivingWorks.
You can also check out the following pages on our website for more information: